Love begets love
"We love, because He first loved us." 1 John 4:19.
One universal principle of life is to reciprocate the love that you received. Treasure those who truly love you and actively return your love to them. Common wisdom tells us that if a tree bears good fruit, you should spend more time caring, fertilizing and pruning it. So that it will bear even more fruit. For a tree that bears no fruit, one should consider giving it some time, then cutting it off eventually. Spend more time with the good trees and at the same time getting rid of the bad ones. The problem is many people gravitate towards those who hurt them. These people are carried away by their wounded emotions and by the darkness of their hearts. They take from those who loved them and give it to those who would destroy them.
We need to identify those who truly love us and make plans to spend quality time with them. Speak words of love, acts of service, and the buying of gifts. Our family, spouse and parents have all contributed much into our lives. Ben Elton said, "If only the strength of the love that people feel when it is reciprocated could be as intense and obsessive as the love we feel when it is not, then marriages would be truly made in heaven." Hence, we must always remember to reciprocate the love we received from our spouse. By reinvesting what we have taken from them, will cause them to amplify the love that they have given to us. Thereby, we create a sustainable energy of love that will not easily die much like a cyclone whose winds recycle and feed into itself.
Our God in heaven who gave His Son Jesus, truly loves us. In Psalm 139:13-18, the psalmist celebrated the love of God:
13 For You formed my inward parts;
You wove me in my mother’s womb.
14 I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
Wonderful are Your works,
And my soul knows it very well.
15 My frame was not hidden from You,
When I was made in secret,
And skillfully wrought in the depths of the earth;
16 Your eyes have seen my unformed substance;
And in Your book were all written
The days that were ordained for me,
When as yet there was not one of them.
17 How precious also are Your thoughts to me, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!
18 If I should count them, they would outnumber the sand.
When I awake, I am still with You.
In the above passage, God was there molding us even when we were still in our mother's womb. As for our future, God has ordained His perfect plans me. We reciprocate our love for God by spending quality time and connecting with Him. We want to know His desires and join Him in fulfilling His will on the earth. We want to see Him, feel Him and touch Him. Some gravitate towards the devil through the pleasures of sin knowing their destruction is at hand. By doing good and loving God, we cause Him to reveal more of His love towards us! No wonder the Psalmist say in Psalm 63:3, "Your lovingkindness is better than life itself!"